Friday, April 30, 2010
A Bitter Sweet Day
The letter from Fed Ex came at 10 am this morning, and we checked it with our representative, and she said it should be what we need. Again, God works His miracles! At this point, it finally hit me...we are going home! It has been a long six weeks, but an amazing six weeks. God has been so faithful, and we have really enjoyed this time as a family. And we have really enjoyed this country. And that's why today is so bittersweet. We have come to love the people here at the hotel...the staff is amazing, and I will really miss Jen, our friend from Minnesota. When you live with people 24 hours a day, you begin to bond with them, and it's going to be sad leaving. I'm also going to miss this beautiful country and this culture. Colombia is forever in our hearts!
But, our time here is finished, and we are also ready to get back to our lives in the U. S. and to see family and friends again. We'll fly into Detroit tomorrow night, and finally be all together as a family of four! So looking forward to it!
I wanted to take a minute to say some thank yous. First and foremost, I want to give the most thanks to God in His constant love and provision for us on this trip, and for blessing us with a son. One he picked for us from the beginning of time. He continues to amaze me. Second of all, I want to thank my wonderful husband. For his time here...honey, you were amazing, and such a wonderful support. Next are the moms. How could I have done it without you? Their support has been amazing, and I really don't think I could have made it through these last few weeks without them. To all of our family and friends, you all have been so wonderful! We honestly can and still do feel your prayers. We can't wait to see you soon! To the donors who offered to pay for our plane tickets and to our church...what a blessing. We are forever grateful. To my friend Jen, who without her company, I would have lost my mind! :) And who helped me have such fun here...thank you!
As you can see, we have been so blessed, and we appreciate all of you. So for now, we're signing off from Colombia. We'll post later from home....sounds good to me!
Con mucho amor,
Becky, Ally and Will
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Wednesday, April 28, 2010
A Quick Update
This week has proven to be a week of ups and downs, as I think all sentencia weeks are. But through it all, we have seen the amazing hand of God, like I have never seen before. Monday morning at 4 am, Will and I boarded a plane for Bogota, and left my mom, Scott's mom, Blaine and Ally in Cartagena to enjoy some more pool time and sun. The day went relatively smoothly, and Will did amazingly well for someone opperating on no sleep. We went and signed sentencia and also got his new birth certificate. (a few glitches with the birth certificate, but we got it figured out). The signing of sentencia was special for so many reasons. First of all, it means that Will is officially a Schrotenboer. Second, the judge personally came in to sign the paperwork (which isn't necessary) and he expressed his thankfulness to us for adopting Will, and told us how much he appreciated us. The whole court staff joined us and we then all had cake and there were hugs and kisses all around. My only regret was that I couldn't convey in my broken spanish, that it is we who are the lucky ones and who have been blessed by the addition of Will into our lives. How I wished I could have let him know that.
As smoothly as Monday went, Tuesday was the exact opposite. I think the lack of sleep coupled with getting about four teeth had finally gotten to Will, and he managed to cry the entire day. We had to go and get his passport and also made a trip to the doctor...both of which were extrememly long and hard for a boy that had had enough. Nontheless, we did get the items we needed and for that I am so thankful. Meanwhile, we discover that we need a letter from Scott saying that I am allowed to take ALLY out of the country. Yes, that is our child with the U.S. citizenship. I, being the lowly mother, can not take her out of the country without my husband's permission. A permission that can only be granted by the Colombian consolate in Chicago. (well, you can also get it here, but Chicago's a bit closer) I'll spare you the details, but we worked on getting that all set for Scott to go to Chicago on Wednesday, and that proved to be quite challenging...we'll just leave it at that.
On to today. Carmen and I went to ICBF this morning to pick up a letter stating that Scott and I followed the rules while in Colombia, and we are ok to adopt Will. We then traveled to the U.S. Embassy to get our Visa for Will. Things went well there, and if all goes as planned, I will pick up the visa tomorrow afternoon. I want to just take a moment to thank Carmen and Isabel who work so tirelessly for the families throught the whole journey, but most of all through this time. They have both been so amazing, and I know that I couldn't have done it without them. Their love for the children and their families show in all that they do, and we are so blessed to have worked with them.
The drama comes in while Scott is in Chicago. At the Colombian Embassy, they ask him for Ally's ORIGINAL birth certificate. Yes, the one from when she was born, when she has a different name. No one has told Scott that he needs it, so that's not something he normally carries on his person. After a call to our agency, he finds out it's not in our file. And here's where we see God's hand (of course we know His hand is working all the time, but it's so amazing when we actually get to witness it). Scott's dad just happens to be home when he calls (which he normally isn't) and can get online to find the number of the hotel here in Colombia. I just happen to be out to lunch...I almost didn't go...but decided to at the last minute. So Scott gets Valarya on the phone and asks her to go through my paperwork in the room. He tells her that it's probably in a black folder. So, she looks through the folder...no birth certificate. So she just happens to look in a file that I had the night before put out, which had been burried in a drawer earlier, and finds it there. I would have not even known that I had it because the orphanage copied that for us when we asked for Ally's file weeks before, but we hadn't asked for that piece of paper, we had only asked for a few other things...we don't even know why that was there. So Valarya faxed it to the Embassy, and Scott had what he needed. If that's not God working, I don't know what is!!!
So, we're not out of the woods yet, but it's looking pretty good that I will be able to travel on Saturday with the moms. The final hurdles are...changing the tickets to a different time as well as a different destination. The airlines are not too keen on this, so we're going to try to find a Delta office here in Bogota and go beg. Second, we need to actually pick up the visa tomorrow. Seems like a small thing, but crazy things happen here in Bogota, and you never know until you have the items in your hand. The third, final and most difficult hurdle is getting that piece of paper that Scott sent out today here before Friday night. Fed Ex said that there are no guarantees, but they are hopeful it will get here by Friday. If it doesn't, I don't leave Saturday, because without that paper, Ally doesn't leave Colombia. So we're asking for prayers that all will continue to go smoothly, and we are praising God for His amazing provision and love for us!
Thanks to all of you for your amazing support, love and prayers...keep them coming for a few more days!
Becky (for Scott, Ally, Will, the moms and Blaine too)
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Coming Home and Some Pictures from the Past Two Weeks
Yesterday was another day of ups and downs, but we got everything we needed to get...the visas and the plane tickets. So, Johnny, the driver is picking me up today at 10:30 to go pick up the letter from Scott allowing Ally to leave the country from the local fed ex office, and with that in hand we are free to leave the country!
We are so ready to come home and be united as a family, but I honestly leave with mixed emotions. As you can see from some of the pictures below, this country is an amazing place and is the birth place to my two children, and for that, I will forever be grateful. We have come to love this country and it's people, and we will miss it until we return.
I wanted to leave you guys with some pictures from the last few weeks. I'll try to post one last time tonight before we leave.
Dancing at Mom's Birthday Party (note mom schrot dancing with Guillermo :))
Ally and mom with her birthday cake
Ally thinking that she should join Blaine in Guitar Hero at Hard Rock Cafe
Ally and Blaine on the beach in Cartagena
And the video I know all of you've been waiting for....my mom dancing at her birthday party!
Hope you enjoy the pics!
Love,
Becky (for all here)
Friday, April 23, 2010
This One's Dedicated to the Moms
I wanted to dedicate this post to them for so many reasons, but most of all to let you all know how blessed Ally, Will and I are by them. To fly all the way to a different country, to try to navigate in a land where you don't speak the language, and to do it all with such grace and patience...I am more amazed by them each day.
Today was one of those days where the kids, and living in a hotel room for almost 5 weeks now, was really getting to me. Let's just say I had a bit of a break down in the morning (when Will didn't sleep at all AGAIN last night), so the moms took charge and decided that they would handle the kids most of the day to give me a break. It was so great to know that I had such capable helpers, and that I could relax by the pool for an hour...such a blessing! Ally adores them both, and Will is really starting to recognize them as family. In fact, those two (and Blaine) were the only ones he really warmed up to in a couple of hours. It was almost as if he knew how special and how amazing these two women are and would prove to be in his life.
So I got a little time to recharge my batteries, and the moms were just wonderful. I want to let them know how much I appreciate them, but I just can't put into words my thankfullness and my gratitude. I only hope that someday, when I'm a grandma, I can live up to the wonderful example that they set for me!
Much love,
Becky
Thursday, April 22, 2010
Sentencia!!!
I'm sorry to all of you blog readers that I haven't posted in almost a week. I know that I was going to try to live up to the daily posts that Scott had you all accostomed to, but to be honest, I'm just so exhausted by the end of the day, I just don't have the strength...but sentecia calls for a post! :)
On Tuesday, the moms and Blaine arrived here safely, and we were very happy to see them! It's good to have some family here with us, and we are so thankful to them for coming. Their help and encouragement means so much more than they will ever know! We are always thankful for our family, but our moms have really gone above and beyond on this trip! I know that I couldn't do this without them...we love them so much and are so blessed to have them in our lives!
So onto the sentencia story...well, on Wednesday, we just played it low key. We walked around Bogota, got some groceries for our trip to Cartagena, and started to pack the kids for the trip. While packing, just before lunch, our rep, Isabel, called me. She said, "When are you leaving for the coast?" I aswered, "Tomorrow at 8am." She said, "We have a slight problem with you leaving because the judge just signed the final decree." I couldn't believe what she was saying. Will is almost officially ours, and we get to go home and be reunited as a family! All I could think was God is so good!
So we had some rearranging to do. I changed my flight back to Bogota a few days earlier with Will while the others will stay until Tuesday night. I'm going to start all of the paperwork on Monday (apparently in court one, which is the court we have, they want you to bring a cake and some coca cola to celebrate, so the hotel staff is arranging that for Monday morning...too funny) and hopefully all will be completed by Saturday so that I can fly home with the moms. There is a very real possibility that this will all work out and I will fly home next weekend, but in Colombia, you never know, so please pray that all goes smoothly, and that we can be home in a little more than a week!
Thanks for all of your patience with me in regards to the blog...if I have time while in Cartagena, I'll post some pics of our time here in the sun and heat!
Love to you all and thanks for the prayers,
Becky
Sunday, April 18, 2010
A Sad Day With Many Blessings
His leaving also means that the blogging falls to me. I think we all can appreciate how talented he is in his writing ability, and also how dedicated he was to recording our time here. I only hope that I can live up to half of that, and will try to keep you all up to date as much as I can.
Although today was a sad one, God granted me many blessings throught the day. Our friend Jen has both of her moms here now, and graciously invited us to walk with them to the markets. I was so glad that today was Sunday, as this is one of my favorite days here. We started walking the streets to the markets, and the sun began shining like I hadn't seen it in weeks. I think God knew that we couldn't take the rain today! We had a great time strolling through all of the vendor's booths, and the kids did surprisingly well for how long we were there. We then decided to go out to lunch, and went to Archie's for some pizza. Again, the kids were amazing. Another blessing. And then Will took an 1 1/2 hour nap and was in a great mood for the rest of the day. Blessing again. God is so good.
The day did have it moments, but all in all, God granted all of us his peace. I want to thank all of you who have been praying for us during this transition. I can feel your prayers, and they are appreciated more than you know.
I'm not going to try to post any pics tonight (although Will had his first sucker today, and it was pretty funny...I'll try to post that later) but I did want to leave you all with an exerpt from a great book my mom gave me. It's called, Calm My Anxious Heart, and it's a great read if you're looking for a good book. It's kind of a long quote, but it really spoke to me as I long to go home and be reunited as a family. This is where God wants all of us right now, and I know that He will bring us home in His perfect time. I will rest in the knowledge that this is where I am supposed to be.
"It was spring but it was summer I wanted: the warm days and the great outdoors. It was summer but it was fall I wanted: the colorful leaves and the cool dry air. It was fall but it was winter I wanted: the beautiful snow and the joy of the holiday season. It was now winter but it was spring I wanted: the warmth and the blossoming of nature. I was a child but it was adulthood I wanted: the freedom and the respect. I was twenty but it was thirty I wanted: to be mature and sophisticated. I was middle-aged but it was twenty I wanted: the youth and the free spirit. I was retired but it was middle-age that I wanted: the presence of mind without limitations. My life was over but I never got what I wanted."
Just a good reminder that we should live our lives in the knowledge that God is in control and that he has a perfect plan. And for that, I am so thankful.
Saturday, April 17, 2010
A Long Drive, Part 2, and Prayer Support
We headed home, and the rest of the day was spent packing and getting me ready to leave tomorrow. After dinner was bath time (one more time before Mom has to do it!) and now the kids are both in bed.
So tomorrow we enter Part 2 of the trip- Beck and the kids without me being here. If there was a person in the world who could handle this situation, it is Beck. She's always amazed me with her strength, and I know there will be times over the next few weeks where she'll be tested. But I also know she will draw on her faith and will be given strength to get through it. Fortunately our moms and one of my nephews is coming Tuesday (Ally can't wait for them to get here!), so that will be helpful. And we'll all be praying for Sentencia every day (and me every hour- all I know about doing laundry is that there are whites and darks. Whites get warm water, darks get cold water. And that's it, right??), so I'm sure she'll be home before we know it. But that's where we're asking for prayer support.
We all know there's nothing more powerful than prayer, and we've felt it from you all since we've been here. But Beck, Ally, and Will need it now more than ever, and we ask that you keep them in your prayers. Prayers for safety, comfort, health, and again, a quick Sentencia. They will enjoy the rest of their stay here (especially next week in Cartegena), but selfishly I'd like them home ASAP, too!
So thanks to all for your love and support. I'm not sure Beck will have the time nor energy to update this every day, but I'm sure she'll do a great job when she does. I've had a riot doing it thus far- my hope in this is that you all see what a tremendous blessing adoption is (and not pay attention to all the media that people like the woman with the son from Russia is getting). Colombia is an incredible country- the people have passion for life unlike anything I've seen in the US, and this is our second love, for it is where we began our family, and now have added to it.
From Colombia, with Love!
Scott, Beck, Ally, and Will
Friday, April 16, 2010
New Jerseys, An Awesome Rep, and a New Worker
Thursday, April 15, 2010
The Wrong Park & Daddy-Daughter Day
Our intent this morning was to get out and do something new that we hadn't yet done. We have been searching for kid-friendly things to do, and we found a park called Parque de Chico that Kristi Vandermaas had gone to, and so we thought we'd head there with Jen and Gabby. Hermann (one of the workers here) called us a cab, told the cab driver where we wanted to go, and off we went. We drove for about 15 minutes when Beck leaned over to me and said, "Huh. This is the way to Parque 93, too (that's the one we went to yesterday). They must be by each other." And I didn't think anything of it- there are so many parks here there's bound to be some popular parks nearby each other. But when he pulled into the exact same spot we were dropped off at yesterday, we knew we were in the wrong spot. I asked him about Parque de Chico, and he just pointed to Parque 93. Well, looks like we're going to play at Parque 93 for awhile.
So we started playing there, and about 10 minutes into our play time, the rain kicked in. We patiently waited for about 10 minutes (which was a mistake) for the rain to let up, and before we knew it, it started to down pour. I grabbed a taxi, and we made a mad dash over to it, soaked. The ride back to the hotel was pretty grim as well- we had a cab driver who didn't know where to go (we had to tell him the directions: Derecha Senor! Izquierda Senor! Pretty funny stuff!), and his defroster was broken so he just had the heat cranked on high the whole time. We had Will stripped down to just his jeans and diaper- no lie.
The best part about that story is that we actually enjoyed it! We always talk here in terms of getting "out and about", so the things that come along are just part of the trip and make for good conversation later on.
Ally and Beck had a girls only afternoon Monday, so today it was my turn to hang out with Ally by ourselves. At Uni Centro (a huge local mall) they have these "cars" for strollers, and every time we pass by, Ally asks if we can get one. So today after lunch we walked over there together and got one of those cars. Then we walked inside the mall to Dunkin' Donuts, and Ally picked out one donut for herself and one for me. I grabbed a coffee from Juan Valdez, and we sat down and had a "meeting", as Ally likes to call them. We just talked for a bit about whatever she wanted to- I think it was great for her to just be away from everyone for awhile. After our donuts were gone, we walked around the mall for a bit. I gave her an option- either she can pick out a new Polly Pocket, or I would buy her some candy. Wouldn't you know it- she picked the candy. We walked to a candy store in the mall, and she picked out peanut M&Ms for us both. The girl has a serious sweet tooth! After we walked around a bit more, we headed back to the hotel.
Will had a rough afternoon (no nap), so we decided to do an early dinner at Archie's pizza with Jen and Gabby. The kids were bathed and in bed by 7:30 tonight, so Beck and I are doing our nightly routine of checking email and updating the blog. Exciting, huh?? We hope all is well at home- we miss you all.
Scott, Beck, Ally, and Will
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Parque 93 & SUNSHINE
The view from the park (as from almost every other place in Bogota) is just stunning. I wish it was clear at this time, but it was still cloudy. Still gorgeous though:
After playing for awhile, we headed back to the hotel for lunch, rest time, and work (for me). When the kids woke up, Beck asked, "Who wants to go to Crepes and Waffles for ice cream??" I pushed Will and Ally out of the way and ran out the door. OK, maybe not quite that extreme, but I think I was ready to go in 3 seconds. By this time, the clouds had cleared out and there was this big orange thing in the sky. I think it's called the sun.
Once at Crepes and Waffles, it's always the same ol' same ol': what to get? Beck actually broke tradition and went with a brownie sundae. But Ally and I stuck to our guns and went with the waffle cones. Mmmmm.... so good! But when a 4 year old eats 2 scoops of ice cream, the sugar kicks in:
Lastly today, with apologies to Will, this is what happens when Dad walks away for a few minutes and Mom and Ally have the camera and Ally's pink sunglasses:
Sorry Bud. Now we have pics of a yellow belt and pink sunglasses. I gotta get him in some camo soon!! Once we returned to the hotel, we hung out outside with Jen and Gabby and the 4 of us for a while. It was GREAT to be outside for a few hours today- everyone's spirits were certainly lifted! We're praying for more of the same tomorrow.
Tomorrow we hope (weather permitting) to go to the national park. I've heard it's beautiful, so we're hoping to get some great pics from there. We hope all is well, and we'll talk to you all soon! Love-
Scott, Beck, Ally, and Will
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
A Proven Theory & The Playland (of Hair)
Another cute pic of the kids (watching Baby Einstein on YouTube):
And a video of one of our (almost daily) dance parties. The song is the Mickey Mouse Clubhouse Hot Dog Song, and Ally like to create dances for different songs:
We hope all is well back home, and appreciate all of the emails, comments, and (especially) prayers. We're surrounded by an incredible group of people!
Love-
Scott, Beck, Ally, and Will
Monday, April 12, 2010
Family Time
Today after breakfast we did head out for awhile. We walked to Uni Centro with Jen (I'm going to stop calling her our friend from MN, because now she's more like a sister- we do almost everything together, including eating at the same table. She's the best!) and headed to Exito for some groceries and to see if we could find a pelota (ball) for Ally to play with and help pass the time while she's here. We also picked up a gift certificate for our representative Isabel (now that was an adventure, given my lack of Spanish-speaking skills) and then found a ball for Ally to play with and a small one that Will can play with too. They had a maize and blue colored football there too, but wanted way too much money for it (although it's hard to put a price on such things- they're essentially priceless). They also had a green and white one which they were trying to give away but couldn't. Huh. I guess it's the same in Colombia as in Michigan (sorry Dad- please don't cut me out of the will).
After Uni Centro we went to a store that we passed yesterday that was a "natural" store. Since we eat (somewhat) healthy at home, we thought we'd pop in there to see what was available. Answer: not much. It ended up being more like a GNC than a healthy, organic type store. Nuts. I was really looking for some organic rice cakes and some carob covered raisins. Instead I had to settle for chocolate chip cookies and Quaker chocolate chip bars from the regular store. What a disappointment.
We headed back to the hotel, and then the rain started again. We made it through lunch, and afterward I worked while Beck took Ally to Jaques (the French pastry place). Ally really needs some one on one time with us, so we're going to try to do that more before I leave Sunday. Beck said they had a really good time together, and Ally said that she's actually having a good time. So that's a good sign that Ally is hanging in there. We'll see where she is in 2 or 3 weeks, but for now she's doing well. Fortunately Grammy, Mimi, and Bubba are heading here next week. That'll make her super happy!
Before dinner the weather broke and we took about an hour walk. Ally slept most of the way, and Will just hung out, taking in all the sights. We went back for dinner, ate, then had bath time. Now the kids are in bed. All in all, nothing special. But where else and through what other process would you be able to spend this much time together? You just can't beat it!!
Love to all-
Scott, Beck, Ally, and Will
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Sans Pics
Sundays are always our favorite days. We always start the day with coffee and pancakes (pancakes are the Sunday treat). After breakfast we got ready (OK, it was almost 9:45 by the time we were ready, and we were up at 6:15. Not exactly breaking speed records) and headed out with Jen from MN and her daughter Gabby. We put on the walking shoes because we knew we'd be putting on some miles today. However, the good news is that there is a stroller here at the hotel which is a double stroller, but it has bigger wheels than ours and is a front to back, not a side by side like ours. We've been using it for a couple days now, and it's much more maneuverable than ours. Even Beck likes it, and will be able to use it to push the kids around once I'm gone.
As is the case every Sunday, today was Cyclovia, where they shut down one side of many of the busiest roads so that bicycles, runners, and walkers (and the occassional roller blader) can get some exercise without fear of getting run over. It always makes eating that one extra pancake seem OK, because you know you're going to walk it off later on.
Our first stop was La Fontana. This is a market smack dab in the middle of a huge residential complex- not sure if they're apartments or condos, but it's a beautiful place made completely of brick, and they have vine growing many places and add in a lot of flora to make it beautiful. The market is a little more upscale than the other ones we go to, but we didn't see anything we needed there.
So from there we walked to Santa Barbera (where we saw the processional on Good Friday). There is a certain wood-door thing that Beck wants to get for our house, and so she wanted to see if we could find that again (sorry for the lack of a description. You know how design stuff is- unless it has a practical purpose I don't know how to describe it better than a wood-door thing). We found what she wanted but now she needs to think about where to put it in the house, and not buying it today will give her a good reason to go back to the market next Sunday. That's how we think around here- "What can I put off/waste time doing/not do right now so I can do it later on?" It's very different than at home where you have a purpose doing everything so you don't waste time. Here you try to waste time so that you don't run out of things to do. Crazy, huh? Anyway, Jen found some shoes she wanted for Gabby, so after that we headed back to the hotel (the trip took about 3-1/2 hours- it was a great workout!).
Once back at the hotel we had some lunch (empanadas- I love them!) and then Will, Ally, and I took naps. After that we just hung out (it was raining by then. The mornings have been OK, but the afternoons have been junky. No worries though!). Will had a bit of a rough day- he's really teething like crazy right now, which isn't fun for the little guy! We're praying for a full night's sleep tonight- they just don't come around much these days!
Nothing crazy planned for the rest of our time here. Just some little things here and there, and still coveting all of your prayers for a quick Sentencia for Beck (especially), Will to continue to get healthier, Ally to continue to "hang in there" as she adjusts to being a Big Sis, and that we soak in all we can in this time together. It certainly is a tremendous blessing, and we wouldn't trade it for the world!
Scott, Beck, Ally, and Will
Saturday, April 10, 2010
Going Home (Not to Michigan- Yet)
So today was really cool for me- it was a chance to hang out with some stinky animals; something I don't get to do except when I'm changing one of Will's diapers.
Panaca is really cool- there were all kinds of animals there, and many different variety of each. Me, I am prone to like the cows the best, so I have a lot of useless pics of bulls and cows (most of which won't be posted here). But here's a taste:
There is a lot of things to do and see there. One of the coolest things is watching the pig races:
And the winner is.....:
After the pig races we grabbed some lunch outside, went and saw the dogs (yes, dogs on a farm. That was a first for all of us), then over to the birds (turkeys, chickens, etc.), the rabbits, and lastly the horses. By that time, the kids were pretty much shot, so I carried Ally (note the sexy farmer's tan. Just like old times!):
It was a great day- we had a really good time as a family and with some friends, and are blessed to be here all together. I will be staying now until the 18th, so we have one more week together. Then only a few days after that the others from our families will be coming in to spend time with Beck after I leave. We're praying for Sentencia soon after that so we can get everyone home and introduce you all to Will!
Much Love-
Scott, Beck, Ally, and Will